"My child never eats" is one of the most common reasons families come to our clinic. The good news: the vast majority of children who don't eat well grow normally — the problem is usually a mismatch between expectation and reality. After the age of 1, the rate of growth naturally slows down, and appetite decreases accordingly.

When Is Poor Appetite Normal?

If your child is progressing along their own channel on the growth curve, is active and cheerful, and gets enough nutrition over the course of the day in total, "eating little" is not an illness. Children eat very differently from one day to the next; the assessment should be based not on a single meal but on the weekly pattern.

Warning Signs

Weight loss or a drop in percentile, difficulty swallowing, pain or vomiting after eating, chronic diarrhea/constipation, paleness and fatigue, and during adolescence a deliberate restriction of eating or a desire for extreme thinness (with regard to anorexia) all definitely require examination. Among the treatable medical causes of poor appetite are iron deficiency, zinc deficiency, and chronic infections.

Strategies That Work at the Table

  • Set meals and snacks to regular times; don't fill the stomach with snacks and milk between meals
  • Put a small amount on the plate; praise when it's finished, and don't comment when it isn't
  • Don't make food a tool for reward or punishment; don't get into "just one more spoonful" bargaining
  • Don't feed in front of a screen
  • Set up a family table; children learn by watching
  • It's normal for a child to refuse a new food — acceptance may take 10–15 exposures

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This article is for general information purposes only; it does not replace diagnosis and treatment. For any concerns about your child's health, be sure to consult a specialist in pediatric health and diseases.

Uzm. Dr. Hasan Keleş — Specialist in Pediatric Health and Diseases, Gaziantep